Don't get set into one form, adapt it and build your own, and let it grow, be like water. Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend. -Bruce Lee
My dear nephew birthday was 2 weeks ago.. and I know it through my sister's blog.. Hmm..
As usual, if I were to say this to my sister, " hey, its zyon birthday har ?" then she will gladly reply, "yah... you always cannot remember de lah" Hmm....
it took me roughly 23 years to remember my own sister's birthday.. 26 May 19XX..
It's this birthday thingy that is bugging me.. Birthday celebration is just so ancient to me now. I just can't seems to bring myself to help celebrate my friends or my own birthday.. I dun value my own birthday, I really just see it as JUST ANOTHER DAY. I don't need birthday sms, and all the more I don't need presents.. It's unexplainable... Every happy day, is my birthday.. Yup, I got to agree that it's one of the world's noble mummy's day as well.. cuz without their screaming and pushing.. we won't be here huh.. ?
When I was younger, my sister and I would buy some little presents for my dad... and EVERYTIME he will say.. "BUY FOR WHAT ?! " I was angry with him during that era.. But now I understand what he is feeling.. Big time..
Not saying that just because I don't celebrate my own birthday, I can use this as an excuse not to celebrate others... it's just that I don't remember the DATES..so I can't celebrate.. opps .. Excuses...
My dear family and friends... Those who know me should know... I love each and everyone of you.. by not smsing or wishing you, it doesn't mean I don't care about you .. I still do!
Oh btw, Happy Birthday Ah Beng.. There's such thing called Friendster birthday reminder.. hiak hiak hiak ..
And lastly, a little message for my sister.. Could you ... er...er.r.... help Zyon and Rachel to set up Friendster account? LOL ...