KC=PS
Freaking hell..
Ppl around the world kept calling and smsing me, asking if I am kan cheong about tmrw..
and I'm not lahh...
But..
Now..
abit kan cheong leh ..hee..paiseh ha ..
dunno why ..
everytime I KC I wanna PS..
kkkkkkkkkk
posted by: Dental Care @ 12:35 AM
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To the parents...
"Suppose, for example, that I am highly overreactive to my children. Suppose that whenever they begin to do something I feel is inappropriate, I sense an immediate tensing in the pit of my stomach. I feel defensive walls go up; I prepare for battle. My focus is not on the long-term growth and understanding but on the short-term behavior. I'm trying to win the battle, not the war.I pull out my ammunition- my superior size, my position of authority- and I yell or intimidate or I threaten or punish. And I win. I stand there, victorious, in the middle of the debris of a shattered relationship while my children are outwardly submissive and inwardly rebellious, suppressing feelings that will come out later in uglier ways."
Extracted from Stephen R. Covey 's 7th habits of Highly Effective People.
When reading this part of the book, the very first thing that came to my mind is to update it into my blog, and dedicate it to all the great parents out there, especially my beloved sister.
Human beings have got this dominating factor build into their system.
Human beings naturally love to dominate.
Who doesn't like the feeling of victory?
From my perspective, it's a very healthy behaviour as long as you know
when to win, and
what to win. In arguments, fights, work or even family... the dominating habit applies..
But towards a child?I strongly believe a child has the potential to learn as much as an adult.
The reason is clear.
They are
growing up.
How many adults are actually growing up? hmm....Their lil' minds are absorbing as much information as an adult. They are at a learning stage, which is the most important stage in a lifespan. Guide a child the wrong way, and he/she will have a tougher time in his/her later stage in life. You don't pamper them, you guide them, correct them and explain to them.
Let the kid understand who he/she is.
Let them
understand themself.
Let them
know what they want.
Make them
think...
"Mum, can I go out with my friends?"
"No"
"But ... why can't I go out with them?"
"I say No means No."
Does the above passage sounds familiar?
I been thru that umpteen times...
The mother above is doing what SHE wants,
and not giving her kid a chance to understand what they want.
"Never use your authority as a parent to tell the kid what to do"It's
unhealthy.Let them
learn..
Make them
think..
Make them
understand themself..
Kids are never a burden.They are
OUR future..
posted by: Dental Care @ 1:29 AM
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Misjudge
I thought yesterday will be the last day I'll see her.
I was wrong...
It's Today.
posted by: Dental Care @ 7:48 PM
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Behind the scene
Dinner with my close friends is always interesting, because that's the time you can find out more about yourself!
we chat about everything...
Today, my dinner session with
WH and "
Fortune
Centre
Flower" was about ..
Mars and Venus..
Miss
FCF was saying.. does man goes for Looks or Body first...
then she ask..
Girl A with Looks, but no body..
Girl B with body, but no looks..
Pick one..
Vague right? no conclusion.. but that's the interesting part!
Some debate session going on ..
Girl A with looks but very thin.. flat chested.. bla bla bla ..
Girl B with body, but face got birthmarks.. scars etc...
Indirectly, WH begin to force me to and answer that he wants..
C.R.A.P.Z
...
It's farking funny ..
We begin to scold some profanities...
FCF remarked that up till this point, she still can't accept the fact that I scold vulgarities.. yah.. nbccb .. bla bla..
Thoughts...................That's the most "
True" me when I am with them..Words and stupid actions that I
"performed" are seriously un-rehearsal in my brainy while I'm with them.. The most orginal me is there, right there..
Right at that Farking spot when I'm with my dearest buddies for life..
Who, or What I am.....................The true me is always sooooo bloody simple... how I yearn to lead a Simple humble life.. Hai.. People judge me as someone that's not serious, someone that's "
mouth flower flower" person.. but that's just me.. I'm
useless-ly harmless...
For god sake, spare me the first impression judgement ok?
Sorry about the sidetrack...As for the question FCF asked,
This is the real authentic answer from me..
It's the brain with the correct frequency that will attract me..
Bonus: Nice butt
Contradicting ?
Read that killer word..
Bonus..
I can live without bonus..Gosh ..
Super outta topic...
Enuff of the ranting ..
Tata.. :X
posted by: Dental Care @ 12:10 AM
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Poppyc0ck ..
Whenever I decide to write a new entry for my blog, all the "memories" and "Stories" will play hide and seek with me. They just seem to be hiding from the tofu inside my head, not willing to share with other kpo readers like U..
This is what I am facing now...
The moment they see the homepage for blogger.com,
PooF! they vanished deep into my lil' brain...
Let's see....
hmm....
ok...
Give up lah ..On the 19th October,
Something .. big will be coming ... the signature will go above the dotted line.
and..
21st October, will be my very last day @ work..
I dun miss my shop,
But,
I will miss the shopping mall sheltering my shop..
I will miss the Bubble Tea also..
awww... dunno why, this Stupid Old man recently got involved in a love triangle..
Love affair between Oreo Coffee ice-blended and Blue Coral ice-blended...
They're equally niceee!! especially with the ah zhu inside..I will miss the people working around my area..
Alright..
no point grumbling and whining or whatever u call it..
Lim pare go sleep liao ...
yah ..
Lim pare..
Wa tarr teh chew gai ..
posted by: Dental Care @ 2:37 AM
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Dotted line ..........................
Oi!
My freaking Dotted line has come~
Have been waiting .. and waiting for it ...
then...
It came~
Ok.. so what's with the Dotted line u may ask..
Once my signature goes above the dotted line,
My life would change.. this is something I strongly believe in..
Here comes a new challenge, another level of service I hope to provide..
Perhaps, some would say more income..
but I would say.. Mee siam mai hum..Mee siam mai hum...
ok ... kidding..I would say it's just gonna be in a more comfortable range..
:)
I can see the world more clearly..that's the most important factor of my job switch!
Yeapy yeap..
Leaving my current job now ..
Awww....
Not happy about it .. but not sad about it too ..
hai.. Life goes on
lah..
Hazy night..
wear a mask before u sleep...
Goodnight~
posted by: Dental Care @ 2:41 AM
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Incredibly Simple